All too often I find myself reflecting on recent events in my life. Arguably, this could be called pro-crastination, but I prefer to see it as self-reflection. During such a recent period of self-reflection (okay, lets call it pro-crastination for … Continue reading Parental Alienation, Happiness and Personal Growth
Before discussing this question, please allow me to put this into context for those readers that may not be familiar with this blog. I am what is known as an alienated parent. Following the breakdown of my marriage my ex … Continue reading Does Thinking About Your Children Less, Mean You Love Them Less?
Like many other alienated parents I have taken to the internet to vent, give and receive support and ultimately attempt to raise awareness of parental alienation. And also like many other alienated parents out there I have a blog. This … Continue reading A Little Plan to Raise Awareness of Parental Alienation. Help Needed!
To those unfamiliar with this blog, this is a cathartic narrative of my numerous experiences in battling parental alienation. See here for a definition of parental alienation. In writing these numerous posts I tend to veer away from going into too much … Continue reading Now, I’ve met some idiots in my time, but seriously!?
It is now a year since I have had any contact with my three beautiful young children. My ex continues to deny me any contact with them. My ex continues to take advantage of a flawed system. A system that … Continue reading Parental alienation, one year on. What have I learnt?
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The Future – Attribution: https://www.flickr.com/photos/33925187@N00/ This post was suggested by my various professionals during my journey and a post by David Shubert on iwaserased.com I have thought about this a lot over the previous years. How to put into words the loss that I feel not seeing my children, having no idea what they are up to, not being asked daddy questions and an infinite amount of other possible situations. I was ‘lucky’, in that I have found (or they found me?) a wonderful new partner and her son, both of whom adore me. They… Continue reading A Living Death?
The above play on words got me pondering on both the nature and choice of behaviours of those that intentionally or unintentionally become enablers of parental alienation. “To be, or not to be, that is the question,” from Shakespeare’s Hamlet is arguably … Continue reading “To enable, or not to enable, that is the question…”
As the name of this blog suggests I am in a battle, however I do not revel in the fight. I am often defeated, but seek no pity for each loss. I cling on to those around me and trust in … Continue reading One Small Victory Against Parental Alienation
In my continuing battle to fight parental alienation and promote social change I have started writing an evidence based article. This currently has the working title of ‘Are UK authorities effectively safeguarding children in their approach to the issue that … Continue reading Looking for Stories of Parents Affected by Parental Alienation…
I am incredibly proud to be involved with the organisation I Was Erased. This U.S. based group is the brainchild of David Shubert, who is a parent continuing to fight what is now a nine and a half year battle to be reunited with his children. The organisation’s aim is to provide and share support and resources for alienated and left behind parents. Their website can be found at http://www.iwaserased.com David regularly writes what he refers to as ‘reflections’ and posts these online. The following is David’s latest reflection, entitled ‘The Living Dead’. This particular piece brought home to me what it is to … Continue reading ‘The Living Dead’, by David Shubert
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